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Evolving Intimacy: The Key to Your Relationship
What if the key to reigniting your relationship isn't trying to recreate the past, but learning how to evolve your intimacy with time?
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 16, 20253 min read


Intimacy Levels at Different Relationship Stages
Healthy relationships are born when two healthy, balanced adults come together.
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 8, 20252 min read


Do Men and Women Experience Intimacy Differently?
While men and women may express their needs differently on the surface, both engage in sex to fulfil emotional and physical needs.
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 24, 20252 min read


Overcoming The Biggest Challenges Couples Face
One the biggest challenges I see couples face is the misunderstanding and differing expectations around what it means to be in a healthy rel
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 25, 20252 min read


Understanding the Fear of Intimacy
Being intimate involves opening up and sharing parts of ourselves that are delicate, fragile, and would cause great pain.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 18, 20252 min read


Understanding Intimacy (I)
People often associate intimacy with physical closeness, but it is much more than that.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 11, 20252 min read


Talking to Kids About Sex: An Age by Age Guide to Sex Education and Expert Tips
Originally published online on 24 Sept 2019 When should you start talking to your kids about sex? And do you wait until they start...
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 25, 20196 min read


Please welcome to the stage 377a...again!
Since India's ruling to legalise gay sex on 6 Sept 20118 the debate on Section 377a of the Penal Code in Singapore has reignited. A...
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 19, 20185 min read


Focus on your relationship, and rediscover amazing physical intimacy
When the relationship is "broken" sex suffers
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 10, 20185 min read


Sexual Wellness Items Sold in in Pharma & Groceries Stores. What do you think? Is this right?
On Sunday 1st April the Straits Times (the main English-language daily broadsheet newspaper in Singapore) ran an article titled "Sexual wellness items are now being sold openly on supermarket and pharmacy shelves and online grocery stores".
Oberdan Marianetti
Apr 4, 20182 min read


How To Choose A Vibrator
Download the high-res infographic on how to choose a vibrator.
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 20, 20181 min read


Older People Want and Enjoy It Too
The two articles published by the BBC this week (see below) are a good reminder of yet another dialogue we are not having: sex in the latter years of life.
Let's remember that we have the potential to be sexual until the end of our days. Needs change with age and we can do more to educate people to healthily enjoy their partnerships and sexual activities, no matter the age.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 15, 20181 min read


How youth suffer because of the lack of sexual education!
Many people lack the basic information to enjoy a healthy, fun and pleasurable sexual experience. And often, those who use the internet, learn from porn, which is entertainment and NOT EDUCATION.
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 5, 20173 min read


Sex is painful for nearly one in 10 women, study finds
Reach out to someone who can help, the silence must stop and the pain can be alleviated.
A painful reminder of the silent suffering endured by women.
Nearly one in 10 British women finds sex painful, according to a big study.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 26, 20174 min read


Let's Start A New Sexual Revolution
The fact that we don't talk about sex and relationships does not make the suffering people experience because of them less serious or less important.
As the awareness and acceptance of this suffering are so low, the first step must be that of bringing it to light. And it is within this light that I see my work as more important than ever.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 26, 20163 min read


Reignite Your Passion (Ask Me Anything Series)
Readers asked, “We are married for a long time and have no more passion. How can we reignite our passion?”
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 21, 20164 min read


Introduction To Anal Sex (Ask Me Anything Series)
Men and women alike are curious about anal sex and many would like to introduce it in their relationship, but don’t know how to go about it.
Today I share some considerations on introducing anal sex into your relationship.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 9, 20165 min read


Penile Pearls, Infection Or Not Infection? That Is The Question!
About 10 to 25% of men globally are affected by a totally normal condition that often causes great distress: commonly known as Pearly Penile Papules or Penile Pearls.
Oberdan Marianetti
Nov 15, 20163 min read


Insights On Women Sexuality
Here are some insights on women’s sexual experiences. I am going to use the findings from a 2016 study, which for the first time gives us a coherent view on the sexual challenges women experience globally.
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 26, 20164 min read


Where Do Babies Come From? Talking to Your Children About Sex.
Children know more than we parents imagine.
As parents we’re always being tested.
Speaking about sex with our children is easier than we imagine.
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 11, 20165 min read
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