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Bicycle Scar - TRAUMA and HEALING
Understand the significance of healing both conscious and subconscious pains for your overall well-being.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 12, 2024


Are You Reacting or Responding to Life?
Are you reacting or responding to life?These two words represent two very different approaches of engaging with life events and with life itself.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 5, 2023


A new self-development programme shows significant improvements in depression up to 3 months later.
A new self-development programme shows significant improvements in depression up to 3 months later.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 13, 2019


Can mindset, cold and breathing really heal us?
I still hear the admonitions as if it were yesterday. “Wear a hat, it’s cold and you’ll get sick” “Cover yourself or you’ll catch a...
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 31, 2019


Let's reflect on where we are.
The Valuable Time of Maturity - Poem by Mário de Andrade
I counted my years and discovered that I have less time to live going forward than I have lived until now
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 11, 2018


Can you press the pause button on life?
It's painful to recognise that at some level I am a slave of the tools I surround myself with.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 20, 2018


Some Suggestions for Tiger Parents
This article will address a typically Asian phenomenon, 'tiger parenting', however, it is my experience that people from the West are...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 27, 2018


3 Things That Are Wrong With New Year Resolutions
One of the main reasons I see people failing their resolutions is because they committed to too much.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jan 31, 2018


We All Have Wings To Fly, Break Them Loose
Be gracious like a swift in flight, use your wings to give direction to your life. Take rest when necessary and stop flapping, but always remember they are your decisions.
Oberdan Marianetti
May 18, 2017


Choose Your Life Purpose From Within You
It takes courage to sit still for a moment and look within... really look within.
Only few are willing to take a moment of pause and look at that part of us that we know is there, is suffering, is calling for attention, but that it is too painful to intentionally look at.
And yet, it is from those moments, and by looking in the abyss, that we often emerge renewed...
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 14, 2017


Let's Start A New Sexual Revolution
The fact that we don't talk about sex and relationships does not make the suffering people experience because of them less serious or less important.
As the awareness and acceptance of this suffering are so low, the first step must be that of bringing it to light. And it is within this light that I see my work as more important than ever.
Oberdan Marianetti
Dec 26, 2016


We Are Equally Responsible For The Same Shit We Complain About
The moral is that whether we see it or not, life always has some shit falling from the sky and at all times we concurrently are its producer and its receiver. Accepting that we play both roles gives us the chance to be skilful and helpful in many life situations.
Oberdan Marianetti
Oct 17, 2016


“It’s too late when we die”
Whoever you are, whatever your dream is START NOW!!!!!!
Many of us delay the decisions that we know in our deepest of deeps we want to take. We make excuses…financial ones, familial ones, cultural, religious and physical ones.
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 27, 2016


Reflections On Being Perfect
It’s so easy to look in the mirror and think, rightly or wrongly, that we are a failure.
We are constantly judging ourselves by the standards that others have placed upon us.
Oberdan Marianetti
Sep 7, 2016


Am I Normal? You Are!!!
One of the most frequent questions sexologists get asked around the world is, “Am I normal?”
For this article I have chosen to address this question through the lens of sexual orientation.
Oberdan Marianetti
Aug 9, 2016


Panda wisdom and the secrets to a fulfilling life
Your uniqueness is already within you; it’s just layered by years and years of distracting stuff. Start peeling the layers off and you’ll find it!
Oberdan Marianetti
Aug 1, 2016


Life Lessons From A 3 Year Old - Our Inner Child
There are life lessons that come to us when we least expect them.
The child within is a wonderful part of us that will never abandon us, and that will always require some level of attention. Caring and looking after the child within helps us integrate ourselves into fuller human beings.
Oberdan Marianetti
Jun 8, 2016


TED Talk - Tackling The Global Epidemic Of Workplace Unhappiness
Our lives are conditioned by other people's scripts.
We grow up being told what to do, what to say and ultimately what to be.
We need to snap out of this collective trance, and become the leaders of our live, both at work and in our relationships.
Oberdan Marianetti
May 28, 2016


3 Lessons I Learned From A SLAP IN THE FACE
Setbacks and disapointment can be wake up calls.
What you can learn from them:
1. Put aside knowledge.
2. Connect to the now
3.Challenge the ego
Oberdan Marianetti
Mar 22, 2016


Rediscover Your Sexual Essence
Sex is an integral part of our identity and erotic love is an important part of a relationship to be nurtured for a balanced healthy life.
Oberdan Marianetti
Feb 17, 2016
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