Originally published online on 24 Sept 2019 When should you start talking to your kids about sex? And do you wait until they start...

I still hear the admonitions as if it were yesterday. “Wear a hat, it’s cold and you’ll get sick” “Cover yourself or you’ll catch a...

Happy New Year everyone, and thank you for the ongoing support!!! I noticed a pattern that continues to show up in conversations with my...

The Valuable Time of Maturity - Poem by Mário de Andrade I counted my years and discovered that I have less time to live going forward than I have lived until now

Since India's ruling to legalise gay sex on 6 Sept 20118 the debate on Section 377a of the Penal Code in Singapore has reignited. A...

It's painful to recognise that at some level I am a slave of the tools I surround myself with.

When the relationship is "broken" sex suffers

On Sunday 1st April the Straits Times (the main English-language daily broadsheet newspaper in Singapore) ran an article titled "Sexual wellness items are now being sold openly on supermarket and pharmacy shelves and online grocery stores".

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This article will address a typically Asian phenomenon, 'tiger parenting', however, it is my experience that people from the West are...

The two articles published by the BBC this week (see below) are a good reminder of yet another dialogue we are not having: sex in the latter years of life. Let's remember that we have the potential to be sexual until the end of our days. Needs change with age and we can do more to educate people to healthily enjoy their partnerships and sexual activities, no matter the age.

One of the main reasons I see people failing their resolutions is because they committed to too much.

Many people lack the basic information to enjoy a healthy, fun and pleasurable sexual experience. And often, those who use the internet, learn from porn, which is entertainment and NOT EDUCATION.

Be gracious like a swift in flight, use your wings to give direction to your life. Take rest when necessary and stop flapping, but always remember they are your decisions.

It takes courage to sit still for a moment and look within... really look within. Only few are willing to take a moment of pause and look at that part of us that we know is there, is suffering, is calling for attention, but that it is too painful to intentionally look at. And yet, it is from those moments, and by looking in the abyss, that we often emerge renewed...

Reach out to someone who can help, the silence must stop and the pain can be alleviated. A painful reminder of the silent suffering endured by women. Nearly one in 10 British women finds sex painful, according to a big study.

The fact that we don't talk about sex and relationships does not make the suffering people experience because of them less serious or less important. As the awareness and acceptance of this suffering are so low, the first step must be that of bringing it to light. And it is within this light that I see my work as more important than ever.

Readers asked, “We are married for a long time and have no more passion. How can we reignite our passion?”

Men and women alike are curious about anal sex and many would like to introduce it in their relationship, but don’t know how to go about it. Today I share some considerations on introducing anal sex into your relationship.

As of today, you can ask me (a qualified psychologist and clinical sexologist) anything in complete anonymity. I have started a question board, which anyone can visit, post and vote on. Visit oberdanmarianetti.com/askmeanything